Do You Have A Difficult Person In Your Life?

I received an email from a friend about dealing with difficult people in our lives. It just made me thought that sometimes we dont wake up happy its because of this creature/s that annoy/s us. Ung tipong maiisip mo 'ito na naman makikta ko na naman ang bwisit na yun!' hehe. And sometimes you want to pray 'nawa'y tamaan nlng sya ng kidlat o ung tipong kainin na lang sya ng lupa'. ^_^

Sometimes it makes you wonder that is this unlovable person was really created just to make your life miserable? That his ultimate mission is to bring hell in your life?!! bwahaha Anyway, through that email I've received, Bo Sanchez gives four BIG gifts you can receive from difficult people. And here they are! ^_^


Gift #1:
Difficult people can teach you how to love, preparing you for Heaven!

§ You learn to become more patient, more understanding, more persevering.
§ You have pity for them because you realize that “Hurt people hurt people”
§ You learn to see the good qualities even among difficult people.
§ You learn how to be compassionate as God is compassionate.
§ You learn how to forgive, to remove bitterness from your heart.

Gift #2:
Difficult people can teach you to protect yourself and learn to say “No” to
abuse.

§ You learn to love yourself, respect yourself, by no longer allowing abuse.
§ You learn to be courageous and stand up against bullies.
§ You learn to give tough love—refusing his abuse again. It may be the most loving thing you can do for a difficult person.
§ You wizen up, learn tact, and learn how to distance yourself from harmful people.

Gift #3:
Difficult people can help you get to know your weaknesses.

§ Difficult people remind you that you too could be difficult to others.
§ Difficult people teach you many important lessons in life. By seeing the tragic results of their actions, you’re inspired to do the very opposite of what they do.

Gift #4:
Difficult people can bring you closer to God.

§ Difficult people force you to pray a lot. (“Lord, help! I can’t take it anymore!”)
§ Difficult people force you to trust in God. (“Lord, I give up! I’ve done everything but she’s still a monster…”)
§ Praying for difficult people may not change them, but YOU will.
§ “Your cross (difficult person) is your key to heaven…” St. Poveda
§ You realize that YOU are God’s difficult person—yet you’re still loved by God!

God Bless everyone! Always be a blessing to others, if you can't love them just dont hurt them...^_^